For many years I have felt isolated and alone, like being stranded on an island with no boat or navigational tools to guide me back home.  So home has been my destination for many many years.  A place where my heart can feel comforted and safe from all that uncertainty with each new day.  The world is very scary and what makes it more previllant today is that people have forgotten what’s most important.

The truth is things have always been uncertain and unpredictable and for many thousands of years the search for home has always been a part of the worlds culture. It’s just that society ignores the fact that many go without knowing where they will rest their heads tomorrow. Privledge has caused a stigma around those less fortunate and an ignorance to think they might not find themselves in the same position someday.

As we all know life can change in the blink of an eye, whether it’s through financial failure, physical health, emotional breakdown, hurricanes, earthquakes, tsunami’s, war, only a few can we control the outcome with, the rest is in the hands of the unknown and mother earth .  So why is it that we continue to play god when it comes to the fate of others?

The picture above shows stranded women with a true sense of desperation, fear and hopelessness, exactly what the circumstances wanted to create.  We can only imagine how they will persevere and survive the aftermath.  So often a situation is not of our doing and the need to feel victimized is what gets us through.  But what if we looked at it as a challenge to find out who we really are, and refuse to accept that in some crazy subconscious way  we deserve our fate.

Home is where the heart is and the heart lives inside of you.  You are your own best friend! We should not define ourselves from the amount of money, friends, jobs, family,or accomplishments we have obtained.  The truth is no two people are alike unless you wish to be a part of a heard that is identified by their persona, to be lead by a system that is breaking down.  Remember they can take away everything but the depth of who you are, your heat always goes wherever you go.

The Eygptians knew the heart is the persons ticket to eternity, weighed against a feather, stop being weighrd down by a heavy heart and embrace your true self by not wanting to be someone else, living somewhere else, longing for things to be different.  Stop asking why me and ask what’s the reason or more importantly what’s the lesson and how quickly can I accept this so I can move on in my journey.

For years I thought I was not capable of making the right decisions, then one day I realized there are no wrong decisions, just a longer way to get to where I need to be, home is right inside of you. No matter where you go there you are, and your essence, your true self will be there with you every step of the way.

Love yourself enough that no one can make you feel not worth of life because life is all about love, and the light you shine will be recognized by others and together with like minds true love can be found. Don’t waste your time trying to convince others of who you are, put that precious energy into yourself become one with nature and it’s creater, find peace and joy will follow, it’s truly liberating and life changing.  The path is not easy but the reward is priceless!

Love and Light







don't beg

We all look to others for our safety and assurance that all will be well. How many times have we been told “No problem” or “I’ll take care of it”, or “Don’t worry about it” and then before you know it your fears concerning the issue surface and boom it’s in your face.

But what’s in your face? the fact that the person you trusted didn’t come through or the fact that you didn’t respond to your gut feeling that could have prevented the situation from occurring in the first place?

So why do we not confront issues that affect us, and allow someone else to take care of it? This is a question I asked myself when events took place that changed everything in my life as I stood by and watched. Do you find yourself doing the same thing? if not then you truly are in touch with your innate sense of what your needs are, but how does that affect others in your life? So you see no matter what choices and decisions we make it affects everyone around us.

Making better choices is very necessary as we go through our daily lives, the decisions that are made no longer involve just you and yours. This means that every conscious choice is just that “conscious” not “unconscious”! We can no longer use ignorance or passive behavior to determine our fate. This goes both personally and globally.

If you thought managing decision making for you was difficult, I can only imagine how hard it will be to consider the entire world’s dilemma!

But in truth all humans require the same thing, food, shelter, safety, and most of all the sense that someone cares and they are not alone!

So where am’I going with all this? What started out as a beautiful depiction above of how bitter sweet life can be especially certain moments when the fear of departure maybe the truth of a situation, what are you left with?

What if your life situation changed without warning, who did you trust to always honor and respect you and your needs that was capable of the ultimate betrayal, to act in a way that proved you did not come first.

The only person in this world who will put you and your needs first is you. For many this is impossible or so it seems. I’am not suggesting as parents we put the “needs” of our children in a less important category, but I’am saying to put everything in perspective, giving a sense of what’s possible and what’s not! The need for their love and adoration of us should not have to come with a price.

When you operate with a true sense of your needs as well as theirs you instill a sense of equality that will last as they grow into adults going off into the world understanding the needs of others as well as theirs.

For centuries personal gain and profit has been the way of the world, the haves and the have nots co-existing in a way where trust no longer has any meaning or purpose.
The only sure thing we have in life is the ability to know what’s best for us and that knowing was a gift instilled within the very structure of our body “The Heart’s Intelligence”

Yes, I know, once again the subject of the heart is the focus of this piece. It deserves repeating over and over again until we can understand just how equipped we are to detect our needs and operate in a way that we are doing what feels right without facts and figures to back it up. The heart does all that for us.

So the next time a gut feeling arises and you choose to ignore it, think again pay attention to what is going on around you and do not put your fate in anyone else’s hands but yours!!

With Love and Respect,